Sacramento woman, 96, gives family the gift of planning her own peaceful death
Jeanada Nolan left her family an extraordinary gift: She planned and expressed her end-of-life wishes. But while many Americans say they want to die without aggressive medical care, that's often not what happens.
![]()
Attorney Tom Nolan and his wife, Susan, at their Palo Alto home, sort photos and personal essays by his mother, Jeanada Nolan, a month after her death. Hospitalized with pneumonia at age 96, Jeanada Nolan chose pain medicine but no other medical intervention. She died quietly days later.
![]()
Jeanada Nolan, pictured with her son, Tom Nolan, then 16, helped create California's master plan for preschool education in the 1970s.
![]()
Jeanada Nolan
![]()
Jeanada Nolan, with her son, Tom, then 10. He says her end-of-life decisions taught him, "There comes a time you've had a really, really full life, and the quality of life ahead isn't something you want. It won't get better. She was in pain."



